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“I could stay in the pit. I could be the victim. Or I could fight, kick, scream, and claw my way out. Which is what it takes.” — Kim Harms
Join Niiamah (@niiamahashong) and Dr. Kim Harms: dentist, author, speaker, death doula, and grief counselor, for an unflinching conversation about what it really takes to rebuild your life after catastrophic loss.
Kim lost her son, her husband, her mother, and her 30-year dental career in a devastating sequence of events. She didn’t just survive, she reinvented herself, wrote six books, built 70 libraries in Rwanda, coaches widows worldwide, and is still charging forward at 70.
This conversation is about resilience that’s more than a buzzword. It’s about choosing to fight the pit. Choosing joy as a goal. And finding your next mission when your old identity is gone.
Timestamps:
0:00 Kim introduces her endgame
1:45 Losing son, husband, career simultaneously
4:21 What does rebuilding actually mean
6:30 Finger-waving cousin changes everything
9:15 The pit of grief explained
13:00 Rwanda survivors model forgiveness and joy
17:20 Maintaining hope against despair
22:36 The mission bigger than yourself
31:30 Overachievers: keep going, forget retirement
36:42 Connect with Kim and final wisdom
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